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Kids Today Don't Stand a Chance
March 13, 2008
By John W. Whitehead
On March 11, 2008,
the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)
released the results of a study which found that
nearly 26% (1 in 4) of American teenage girls ages
14-19 have at least one sexually transmitted disease.
This report and its ramifications, however, were
quickly shelved so that the media could provide us
with non-stop coverage of the New York governor’s
sexcapades with a prostitute.
As titillating as
the Spitzer scandal might seem, its impact is fleeting
when compared to the fact that approximately 3.2
million young women in the United States are estimated
to be infected with a wide range of sexually
transmitted diseases. Of the 838 teen girls surveyed,
approximately 50% admitted to being sexually active.
Of this 50%, an overwhelming 40% tested positive for a
sexually transmitted disease.
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In addition, the
study found that 48% of African-American teenagers
were infected with a sexually transmitted disease and
that 15% of the teenage girls who had an infection had
more than one. The CDC also claims that the prevalence
among teenage girls may actually be higher than their
report indicates, as the study fails to include
sexually transmitted diseases such as gonorrhea, HIV
and syphilis.
These statistics
should have sent shockwaves across the nation.
Instead, they were greeted with a lack of surprise by
groups like Planned Parenthood. And although few
people had much to say about why the numbers are so
high, Dr. Dorothy Ferguson, medical director at
Planned Parenthood Mar Monte, attributes the rise in
sexually transmitted diseases to the fact that we’re
not teaching our young people enough about sex,
specifically safe sex practices.
Yet I would
suggest the very opposite: Not only are we teaching
our young people too much about sex, we’re
teaching them all the wrong things.
When I was growing
up, corporate America didn’t sell sex the way it
does today. But for corporate America today, the only
bottom line is money. Today’s world is one in which
sex sells—where images regarding sexuality are
continuously discussed and propagated through print
and television media, as well as the Internet.
Advertisements
bombard our young people’s minds with messages that
either overtly or indirectly strive to sell
merchandise through the promotion of sexuality. For
example, the clothing company Abercrombie & Fitch
has been under constant fire for its catalogs and
advertisements which depict scantily clad individuals
engaging in what critics have labeled “group sex.”
Even advertisements for more innocuous products such
as toothpaste and acne medication imply that their
products will help the guy “get the girl” and be
more successful sexually.
Furthermore, our
movies, music, celebrities and pop culture all portray
sex as glamorous and lacking real-life consequences,
such as disease and pregnancy. A study conducted by
the Kaiser Family Foundation found that “more than
half of all television programs, excluding news,
sporting events, and children’s programming,
contained sexual content, incorporating an average of
more than three scenes per hour. Less than 10% of the
programs with sexuality themes incorporated any
reference to the consequences of sexual activity.”
There can be no
mistaking the fact that our children are modeling
their behavior after our own. Accustomed to living in
and for the moment, we fail to consider the
consequences. We have adopted the motto, “if it
feels good, do it.” We have become a nation of
people without limits—a people with no moral
compass.
Yet it was not
always this way. Religion and moral values were once
the glue that held our communities and families
together. They taught us that there must be internal
limits in each of us—lines that must not be crossed.
Throughout our history, churches, synagogues, families
and schools worked together to teach children right
and wrong. And for the most part, we lived within
those limits.
Today, our
children are stuck in a moral vacuum of our own
making. Our religious institutions have lost the moral
high ground and, thus, no longer speak with authority.
And teachers refuse to mention the word “morality”
in the classroom out of fear of a lawsuit. Worst of
all, the traditional family is in a shambles. The
picture of the American family shows a broken home,
shattered by divorce, infidelity and distrust.
America’s divorce rate hovers around 50%, and not
even religious leaders are immune. According to a
survey, one in five adults in a monogamous
relationship has cheated on his/her partner. The rate
is even higher among married men. Perhaps most
disturbing, surveys have found that “married folks
with kids—including women with very young
children—are nearly as likely to commit adultery as
childless couples.”
As a consequence
of our rash behavior, our children have learned that
they can have sex whenever and with whomever they
want. After all, they can just take a pill to prevent
pregnancy. And if they do get pregnant, all they have
to do is head down to the local abortion clinic for a
quick fix. According to the Guttmacher Institute, a
leading tracker of abortion statistics, 24% of all
pregnancies end in abortion. In 2002 alone, 1.29
million abortions occurred. And now we’re looking to
vaccines and other prevention strategies to “fix”
the high incidence of sexually transmitted diseases
among young people.
However, handing
out condoms and IUDs to kids will not alleviate the
problem because the real issue goes to the very heart
of our system of values and the way we view one
another. When we reduce sex to nothing more than a
biological act, of course we’re going to find
ourselves riddled with diseases, unwanted pregnancies
and failed relationships.
If we really care
about our children, we had better take a good look in
the mirror. Our kids don’t stand a chance unless we
can shore up the family structure, restore a sense of
community and teach them morality, values and respect.
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